在The Big Difference between Winner and Loser看到这个有意思的总结，
(1) A Winner makes mistakes and says: I was wrong
But a Loser says: it wasn’t my fault.
(2) A Winner credits his good luck for winning even though it wasn’t luck
But a Loser credits his bad luck for losing, but it wasn’t about luck.
(3) A Winner works harder than a looser and has more time
But a Loser is always too busy too busy saying a failure.
(4) A Winner goes through a problem and a loser goes around.
(5) A Winner shows his sorry by making up for it
But a Loser says his sorry but he does the same thing next time.
(6) A Winner knows what to fight for and what to compromise on
But a Loser compromise on what he should not and fights for what isn’t worth fighting for.
(7) A Winner says I am good, but not as good as I ought to be.
But a Loser looks down at those who have not yet achieved the position he has.
(8) A Winner respects those who are superior to him and to him and tries to learn from them; But a Loser resents those who are superior to him and tries to find fault.
(9) A Winner is responsible for more than his job
But a Loser says, I only work here
(10) A Winner says “There ought to be a better way of doing it”
But a Loser says why change it, that’s the way it has always been done.
对我印象最深的还是这个第一条，
胜利者在错误的时候说，我错了，
失败者在错误的时候说，不是我的原因。
真是具有一针见血之妙。
